The Tag Team of Arts & Kettlebell Exercises

By Dutch Kiesecker


Whenever I go out for the weekend, I will happen to see many single people getting out on the town at their local ball. They want to look great, with some hope, they can meet the perfect person they desire. However, in reality dressing nice and drinking lost of alcohol won't really help you find the right girl. So sometimes I would go to some people and ask why they have not considered going to the gym. They consider it for a bit and then I suggest the perfect way to meet the right guy or girl is by starting some kettlebell exercises or undertaking an arts and crafts class?

Imagine, for a moment, what it's like for a single person walking into a bar full of strangers. You don't know what you have in common with them - if you have almost anything in common to speak of at all, that is. It could be a daunting encounter and at the end of the night, you haven't met anybody with long term potential or you spent all night nursing your drink by yourself in the spot. You should have taken up ceramics or kettlebell training as a substitute.

Now if you want to be serious about trying to improve your dating life, then the gym is the place you need to be at. Instead of being around a bunch of rowdy people, you can have the courage to meet someone who has the same desire as you to be physically fit. While you might not be dressed fancy in a gym instead of a bar, a lot of the pressure is going to be off you when you first encounter him or her. Also, the person is going to view you in a potentially positive light, since you are looking to drop some pounds like they are.

If a step aerobics class or the kettlebell workout isn't for you, pick a class that truly interests you. If you like the arts, pick up a drawing or ceramics class. Maybe the live model in class will strike your fancy or you can simply meet a fellow lover of the arts. (Picture you and your new sweetheart reenacting that scene with Demi Moore and Patrick Swayze in Ghost.) If you're compelled in cooking (or can't cook for your life) look for a prospective date in a cooking class and connect over your fondness (or hatred) of a culinary arts.

Remember that chances are that you aren't going to meet the person you're going to marry in a dimly lit bar. Instead of being encircled by the smells of a brewery floor and too much perfume, imagine being overcome by the fragrances of something enticing at a cooking class. Instead of meeting someone whose judgment is weakened by one drink too many, meet someone to share your endorphin high after nice workout. After all, if you're interested in cooking, art, or kettlebell training - isn't it a good idea to find someone who shares that hobby?




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